Why do some women squirt and some don't?
Last Updated: 30.06.2025 08:17
It took around 3–4 months when my girl experienced/felt squirting for the first time. We tried everything e.g., oral stimulation, fingering vibrator, g-spot stimulation with fingers and vibrators; clitoral stimulation etc.; however, my girl used to stop me whenever she would start feeling that she may release pee. Since, I had seen in various porn and read that squirting is very similar to peeing, so I used to encourage her that she can even pee if she feels so. I knew she was still feeling mental barrier of getting the bed and my face. I continued to stimulate her body and encourage her to pee.
Now, we do it regular basis. Initially my girl beleived that its pee. However, I asked her to drain her bladder everytime we do it. After, stimulation of few minutes she feels her bladder is filling again to release the liquid and then she can squirt same amount of liquid everytime. So we inferred that stimulation gets liquid from skene’s gland to bladder and then make it release through squirting.
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My girl takes around 5 minutes to arrive at peak; however, I have made her squirt within 30 seconds.
Further, There is similarity between urine and fluid discharged during squirting and it feels like peeing. Most of the unsuccessful females arrive till the peak of the squirting but fails to experience it because they override it or hold it back. A female new to squirting would always take it as embarrassment for first few times. Also, many of the females arrives very near to the peak point of squirting; however, they stop the clitoral stimulation due to fear of urination. Therefore, it is responsibility of male partner to make his female counterpart relxed and encourage to experience/feel squirting to mitigate embarrassament.
Try clitoral stimulation instead g-spot;
There are so many myths in respect to squirting. Most of the people beleive that every female is made differently; and therefore, only 1/3rd of total females can only experience squirting.
I beleive that every female is same in their anatomy and physiology; and every female is capable of feeling squirting. Since, the act of squirting needs the female in very relaxed environment; thats why only 1/3rd can experience/feel squirting. It is duty of her partner to make her to feel relax so she can experience squirting.
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keep trying (it may take few days to months depending upon the mental barrier)
I will also make few points to enable others to make their girl to experience squirting. These are:
Try to make your girl relxed so she would not override when she feel like peeing;
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dont do anything which make her to feel embarrassment; and
Thank you for your question!
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Try a vibrator (since the stiulation needed is difficult to meet through oral or fingering);
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Finally, one day she was able to break that mental barrier and showered her love on me. Thereafter, we practiced few more times same day. She felt completely drained and relaxed. It is so satisfying seeing your partner feeling amazing. When you look her organ, she feels contractions like she is giving birth to water, pushing everything out. It makes me excited and feel proud that I can make her squirt when everytime she squirts.
keep trying the same till she feels it at fullest.